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    Re: Hurry, I need help (please)..... my hand is broken and...

    Quote Originally Posted by G Wolly
    Alright now you're just twisting my words.

    All I said there, is that most women want a guy to ask them to get married and when you didn't do that for 15 years maybe she's been looking elsewhere for that.

    And maybe that guy just happened to be your cousin.
    My cousin is a 35 year old ass clown who lives at home with his mother and can't afford new shoes. He isn't a threat to take my girl, it is the fact that he tried.
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    Re: Hurry, I need help (please)..... my hand is broken and...

    Quote Originally Posted by yordad
    My cousin is a 35 year old ass clown who lives at home with his mother and can't afford new shoes. He isn't a threat to take my girl, it is the fact that he tried.
    If he isn't a threat why are you treating it as such?

    If he went beyond a text to try and make it happen THEN knock him out.

    I think you're insecure about something to take it this far.



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    Re: Hurry, I need help (please)..... my hand is broken and...

    Quote Originally Posted by G Wolly
    If he isn't a threat why are you treating it as such?

    If he went beyond a text to try and make it happen THEN knock him out.

    I think you're insecure about something to take it this far.
    Yes, I am insure that my closest cousin just told me he loved me, than hit on my girl. Get it?

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    Re: Hurry, I need help (please)..... my hand is broken and...

    I wish somebody punched me in the face right before I decided to open this thread...

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    Re: Hurry, I need help (please)..... my hand is broken and...

    The point is that if you trust her to not act upon anything with him or someone else behind your back, the punch out was too much.

    But if there's reason to think she'd do that to you, it's time move on.

    It's like when a woman stays with an abusive man because they're afraid they won't find someone else.

    Sometimes you just have to suck it up and move on.

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    Re: Hurry, I need help (please)..... my hand is broken and...

    Quote Originally Posted by G Wolly
    The point is that if you trust her to not act upon anything with him or someone else behind your back, the punch out was too much.

    But if there's reason to think she'd do that to you, it's time move on.

    It's like when a woman stays with an abusive man because they're afraid they won't find someone else.

    Sometimes you just have to suck it up and move on.
    Even if she was a cheating Whore from Cancun, my cousin knows I love her, and hitting on her = a punch in the face. He knows me. He actually risked worse. I think he himself is surprised I didn't put the boots to him. I know his mom is.

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    Re: Hurry, I need help (please)..... my hand is broken and...

    So Yordad, how come you haven't married your girlfriend? Frankly, after 15 years of dating, I too would be looking elsewhere. Speaking from a woman's perspective, we really don't like to wait forever for you guys to decide if we're worth marrying or not. Either your girlfriend isn't very attractive and she feels that you're her only option or she's waiting to find someone new before dumping you. Either way, **** or get off the pot. It's cruel to date a girl for 15 years. Shame on you!


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    Re: Hurry, I need help (please)..... my hand is broken and...

    Thanks for backing up my statement Valerie.

    But do you love her, or are you IN love with her?

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    Re: Hurry, I need help (please)..... my hand is broken and...

    Quote Originally Posted by yordad
    I think he himself is surprised I didn't put the boots to him.
    Well giving him boots would help the whole can't afford shoes problem.
    Last edited by Static; 12-10-2009 at 02:25 PM.

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    Re: Hurry, I need help (please)..... my hand is broken and...

    This is like Springer, Christmas at Yordad's is going to be interesting. Your cousin sounds like a real winner.

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    Re: Hurry, I need help (please)..... my hand is broken and...

    Quote Originally Posted by yordad
    Yeah, just dump my girl of 15 years because my creep cousin hit on her over a suspicion she may have helped encourage him? What did your devorce take? Not a shot, but an honest question.

    I found my wife in bed with one of her coworkers.

    that's all it took to end the marriage. in retrospect i should have saw it coming. My brother had an engagement end pretty much the same way (though the girl was sleeping with one of HIS coworkers, and he didn't see it personally just discovered they went to Vegas together, same thing).


    as to my point. most guys don't hit on a girl that hard without getting some signs back. she had to have been encouraging him somehow.
    Last edited by Ingtar33; 12-10-2009 at 02:25 PM.
    My wife told me that if I had a dollar for every girl who found me unattractive, girls would find me VERY attractive.

    MY WIFE SAID THAT!!!

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    Re: Hurry, I need help (please)..... my hand is broken and...

    Quote Originally Posted by Ingtar33
    I found my wife in bed with one of her coworkers.

    that's all it took to end the marriage. in retrospect i should have saw it coming. My brother had an engagement end pretty much the same way (though the girl was sleeping with one of HIS coworkers).


    as to my point. no guy hits on a girl that hard without getting some signs back. she had to have been encouraging him somehow.
    And you didn't "suspect" it sooner?

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    Re: Hurry, I need help (please)..... my hand is broken and...

    Quote Originally Posted by yordad
    And you didn't "suspect" it sooner?

    I was pretty clueless. In retrospect there were some warning signs but i never saw them at the time... or more accurately i didn't want to see them... i wanted to "trust" her
    Last edited by Ingtar33; 12-10-2009 at 02:27 PM.

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    Re: Hurry, I need help (please)..... my hand is broken and...

    Quote Originally Posted by HAMMER
    This is like Springer, Christmas at Yordad's is going to be interesting. Your cousin sounds like a real winner.
    My boots cost more then his child support per month. But, this was kinda funny, lol.

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    Re: Hurry, I need help (please)..... my hand is broken and...

    Quote Originally Posted by yordad
    I've been in over a 100 fights in my youth. It is a given I had (and maybe alittle linger) anger management problems, lol. We've been together 15+ years, she learned nothing new. And neither did he, or any other member of our fam. Well, they learned that he is a creep and a douchebag, but thats about it.

    The point is, he tried. He tried after lying to my face. He lied right to his mothers face. And, he is lucky he didn't get the boots.

    But, I appreciate your veiwpoint.
    This post tells me all I need to know... Either you have anger management issues... or you can't help yourself from acting like a total douchebag... One of those two...

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    Re: Hurry, I need help (please)..... my hand is broken and...

    Quote Originally Posted by Ingtar33
    I was pretty clueless. In retrospect there were some warning signs but i never saw them at the time.
    You are basically telling me to ditch my wife after a suspected warning sign. A warning sign that I ended. Abruptly.

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    Re: Hurry, I need help (please)..... my hand is broken and...

    Quote Originally Posted by yordad
    You are basically telling me to ditch my wife after a suspected warning sign. A warning sign that I ended. Abruptly.

    I'm telling you that she's probably not blameless. do what you want. just know it takes 2 to tango. And while you cousin deserved to get his face busted, don't take your eyes off the girl. she may be just as guilty in this.

    It might only be something harmless like she wants to make you jealous, why else would she show you the text? In which case she instigated the beating. That's pretty manipulative on it's own. that type of crap i never tolerated in anyone i dated.

    some guys might like their girls playing that type of game. I never could stomach it. I refuse to play it. and i've ditched every girl who tried.
    Last edited by Ingtar33; 12-10-2009 at 02:32 PM.

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    this thread makes me want to cut my nuts off
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    Re: Hurry, I need help (please)..... my hand is broken and...

    Quote Originally Posted by Ingtar33
    I found my wife in bed with one of her coworkers.

    that's all it took to end the marriage. in retrospect i should have saw it coming. My brother had an engagement end pretty much the same way (though the girl was sleeping with one of HIS coworkers, and he didn't see it personally just discovered they went to Vegas together, same thing).


    as to my point. most guys don't hit on a girl that hard without getting some signs back. she had to have been encouraging him somehow.
    did you punch the guy?

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    Re: Hurry, I need help (please)..... my hand is broken and...

    Quote Originally Posted by BlackMetalNinja
    This post tells me all I need to know... Either you have anger management issues... or you can't help yourself from acting like a total douchebag... One of those two...
    I have anger issues. I have managed to keep them managed for a long time though. Anyone who knew me pre 16, or even pre 25 knows that. I'm a recovered ghetto thug, man. Well, as much as I could have been for these parts.

    Believe it or not, I've come a long way. Most of my childhood friends are incarcerated, and several are dead.

    But, I'm not sure what this has to do with this. Even a computer nerd has has limits. Even an accountant, or geologist has his limits. I don't care how old, smart, reserved, polished, or rich I get, I hope I am never that guy that just sits there and wonders, or "takes it" when his cousin hits on his girl. Never gonna happen.

    Never, ever gonna happen.

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