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I wish I saw this earlier. EE is right. Who cares about her marriage! But this is one of those things you'll regret later in life. "DAMN I SHOULD HAVE BANGED HER!!!!!!" Make sure you seal the deal, but don't get involved with the divorce. Just let her know it's only about the sex.
OK RedEye I have only read up to page 4 but I will lay it out.
I was the husband about 4 years ago. My wife cheated on me and to tell you the truth it has screwed up my entire life plan. I was supposed to have a 2 year old by now. I was supposed to be on the 3rd year of my mortgage. I was supposed to be with her for better or for worse, for richer for poor till death do us part. My wife and I could have maybe fixed this if he didn't push her. I agree it was her as much as him but it takes 2. He should have looked at that ring and said no but he didn't care about the sanctity of marriage.
I have heard about them since. After my divorce they were together about 6 months and they split. I guess the excitement of a taboo relationship wasn't there anymore. I also heard she met some one else before it ended. If you have feelings for this woman, Just remember ... once a cheater ALWAYS a cheater. A Marriage counselor told me that. No matter what religion you are I think a good rule to follow is "do unto others as you would have them do unto you"
I hope you think about this guys hopes and dreams the day he got married and give them a chance to try and see the problems they have and fix them.
Originally posted by Voltron OK RedEye I have only read up to page 4 but I will lay it out.
I was the husband about 4 years ago. My wife cheated on me and to tell you the truth it has screwed up my entire life plan. I was supposed to have a 2 year old by now. I was supposed to be on the 3rd year of my mortgage. I was supposed to be with her for better or for worse, for richer for poor till death do us part. My wife and I could have maybe fixed this if he didn't push her. I agree it was her as much as him but it takes 2. He should have looked at that ring and said no but he didn't care about the sanctity of marriage.
I have heard about them since. After my divorce they were together about 6 months and they split. I guess the excitement of a taboo relationship wasn't there anymore. I also heard she met some one else before it ended. If you have feelings for this woman, Just remember ... once a cheater ALWAYS a cheater. A Marriage counselor told me that. No matter what religion you are I think a good rule to follow is "do unto others as you would have them do unto you"
I hope you think about this guys hopes and dreams the day he got married and give them a chance to try and see the problems they have and fix them.
Originally posted by mush69 Most likely her marriage is on the skids already if she will tell you that she isn't happy with the way things are going. She is probably just as confused as you are if she has a heart.
She just might be out for a roll in the hay, there are women out there that have no feelings what so ever for the man that loves them. I know I have been with a couple them, proposed to them and they were screwing around very shortly afterwards!
If a relationship starts out on the dishonest side, 2 people screwing around on their partner(s). Will you ever be able to trust her if you were to become a couple? I have some very good friends that started their relationship this way and to this day neither of them trust each other when they have a guys night out or a girls night out. Gets to the point where I don't want him to hang out me if she isn't around because she always hunts us down and makes a big scene if we are just having a couple of beers and enjoying the company of a female bartender!
Don't do it Man, as tempting as it is Don't. Wait untill she is single and persue her. Remember the rebound relationships never last, and usually cause a lot of hurt for both parties involved.
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