Scenario 1:
I know where you live and I'm coming to your house to kick your ass and rape your wife
Scenario 2:
I'm at the bar at The Hyatt (or whatever). You want to talk ****? Come get some. I'll be waiting.
Which one actually happened?
Spoiler: It wasn't 1.
All the rest is just imaginary. The facts? Scenario 2.
Case closed.