You might like to believe that, but I spent years as an analyst. That means I was trained and paid to think about things. You don't "overthink" anything. No one does. You think just enough to see things the way you see them. You have a mode of thinking that leads to a quite predictable endpoint. 1-1=0 If you thought anything all the way through, you would understand the other perspective enough to not feel the need to correct every positive with a negative. Zero does not have to be the sum of every damn conversation.